Conquering Survivor Circle
You are not broken.
Maybe you’ve carried shame for things you did years ago. Maybe you’ve never understood why you reacted the way you did, and somewhere along the way you started believing you were not enough, or worse, that you were bad.
What if your reactions made sense? What if they were your mind and body doing exactly what they learned to do to keep you safe?
The Conquering Survivor Circle is a small, faith-centered coaching group for women who are ready to stop living as survivors and start living as conquerors. Together we’ll look at your story with understanding instead of judgment, learn why you responded the way you did, and practice the hard, freeing work of forgiving yourself.
How It Works
The Circle meets live by secure video, so you can join from anywhere in the world. Sessions are held for one hour on the second Monday of each month at 7:00 pm Eastern Time (US). [Check the time where you live.]
Over 12 months, we move through the six modules of the Conquering Survivor Method, spending two sessions on each one. The first session in a module introduces the concepts, and the month between gives you time to practice with your workbook and weekly action steps. The second session is for going deeper and sharing what you’ve discovered.
Healing doesn’t happen overnight. Meeting monthly gives you room to live what you’re learning between sessions, with a circle of women to come back to.
The group is limited to 10 women. That’s on purpose. A small circle means you’ll be seen, heard, and supported, not lost in a crowd.
What You'll Explore
Each module pairs a proven framework for understanding trauma with a scripture that anchors it in God’s truth.
- 1. Understanding Your Nervous System (Polyvagal Theory, Psalm 34:18): why your body reacts the way it does, and how to find calm again.
- 2. Releasing Shame (Attachment Neuroscience, Romans 8:1): how early relationships shaped your sense of worth, and why there is no condemnation for you.
- 3. Growing Through What You've Been Through (Post-Traumatic Growth, Ephesians 2:10): discovering the purpose and strength your story holds.
- 4. Guarding Your Heart (Boundaries and Family Systems, Proverbs 4:23): setting healthy boundaries without guilt.
- 5. Renewing Your Mind (Cognitive Reframing, Romans 12:2): recognizing the old messages and replacing them with truth.
- 6. Living as a Conqueror (Behavioral Activation, Romans 8:37): taking daily action toward the life God created you for.
What You Receive
- 12 live, interactive group coaching sessions with Deborah Tome, LCSW
- The Conquering Survivor Method workbook, with reflection prompts, scripture exercises, and weekly action steps
- A small, safe community of women walking the same road
- Practical tools you can use for the rest of your life
- A faith-centered approach that honors both your healing and your relationship with God
Who It's For
The Circle is open to English-speaking women anywhere in the world who have lived through trauma and are ready to do the work of healing. It’s for women who want both practical tools and a faith foundation, and who are tired of feeling stuck in the past.
Investment
- Pay in full: $997 (save $44)
- Payment plan: 3 monthly payments of $347
Your investment covers all 12 live sessions, the Conquering Survivor Method workbook, and a full year in a small circle of women walking this road with you.
Next Circle begins: Monday, December 14, 2026, at 7:00 pm Eastern Time (US)
Spots available: 10
Meet Your Coach
Deborah Tome is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) and Certified Clinical Trauma Professional with more than forty years of experience helping people heal. She is the author of Conquering Survivor: Living as a Conqueror and the founder of Transformation DT LLC. Her work brings together evidence-based understanding of trauma and a Christian faith perspective, woven together so that healing touches the whole person.
